And I'll stop lurking and reading everyone's thoughts and toss in one of my own:

I think that maybe for those of you who have no idea that R&A are together, we can still use you if you're really set on being in the plot.

Rory's MO when freaking out is to grab what she can and use it. So really, if you happen to be nearby when she's having a minor panic attack, she may randomly engage you in conversation or something...and then never explain what her problem is.

So drop me a line if you want to be integrated, and I can definitely find something on the Rory end of things.